Collaborative filtering is one of the most widely used methods in recommender systems. In recent years, Graph Neural Networks (GNN) were naturally applied to collaborative filtering methods to model users' preference representation. However, empirical research has ignored the effects of different items on user representation, which prevented them from capturing fine-grained users' preferences. Besides, due to the problem of data sparsity in collaborative filtering, most GNN-based models conduct a large number of graph convolution operations in the user-item graph, resulting in an over-smoothing effect. To tackle these problems, Adaptive Preference Retention Graph Convolutional Collaborative Filtering Method (APR-GCCF) was proposed to distinguish the difference among the items and capture the fine-grained users' preferences. Specifically, the graph convolutional method was applied to model the high-order relationship on the user-item graph and an adaptive preference retention mechanism was used to capture the difference between items adaptively. To obtain a unified users' preferences representation and alleviate the over-smoothing effect, we employed a residual preference prediction mechanism to concatenate the representation of users' preferences generated by each layer of the graph neural network. Extensive experiments were conducted based on three real datasets and the experimental results demonstrate the effectiveness of the model.