We study the Benjamin-Bona-Mahony model with finite distributed delay in 3D, which depicts the dispersive impact of long waves. Based on the well-posedness of model, the family of pullback attractors for the evolutionary processes generated by a global weak solution has been obtained, which is unique and minimal, via verifying asymptotic compactness in functional space with delay $C_V$ and topological space $V\times C_V$, where the energy equation method and a retarded Gronwall inequality are utilized.